Croning Ceremony
The ritual begins with smudging, addressing the four directions, and opening the circle. The group of wimmin (close friends and acquaintances) sat around and listened to stories of the crones' lives. The Crones brought photos documenting specific times during the years, and these were passed around while the tales were told. Most interesting were the Crones' stores of lessons learned in their lifetimes. Because there were two womyn being croned, this was a long (but enjoyable), process.
We then took turns giving affirmations and telling stories of our experiences with the Crones. Toasts were given and libations were poured, accomplishments were spoken of, and elder Crones attending the gathering were acknowledged and praised. flower wreaths were placed on the heads of the two Crones. They also spoke of their wishes and hopes from this group of friends, and from life in general. Plaques commemorating this special day can be made by participants and given to the Crone(s) at this time.
The group proceeded to move outside, where the Crones were presented with gifts. Some wimmin gave material gifts, some danced or sang songs, one womon gave a video of the celebration. large amethyst crystals were given to represent the Crone Jewels.
As Priestess, I presented these crystals, saying, "We honor you, our Crones, with these crystals; may they always remind you that you are Goddess, our sisters, and wise wimmin. Blessed be the Crone aspects of The Goddess - Fortress wisdom, Cutter and Taker of life."
One womon danced a special dance, another sang a song, still another played her harp. Musicians engaged for occasion played dance music during the ritual and afterwards for the party.
The circle was closed, directions thanked, and the feasting and merriment continued.