To Settle A Disturbed Relationship In Your Life
— Linterah
Equipment:
- A black candle
- Oil to annoint the candle
- Your basic altar set up for this ritual (You can do this formally or informally)
Timing: Do during the full moon since this is the time when energies are waning with the moon.
Ritual
Light your altar candles.
Annoint a black candle with a suitable oil (if you don't have any, or are not able to get something appropriate, I believe a drop or two of an oil such as canola or almond oil will suffice that you have now consecrated for general ritual work, decided you'll use for only candle work) by rubbing the candle from the middle to he base end of the candle while concentrating on the purpose of the candle. Which, in this case, is to rid yourself of the negative influences of former friends.
When you feel the candle is ready for ritual, put it into a proper holder for the type of candle you are going to use and light it. If possible, allow it to burn down completely. Otherwise, burn the candle for as long as you can, snuff it out and relight it until there is very little of the candle left.
Burning a black candle is good fro ridding your home of negative energies or "personal" negative problems
.When the candle has been burned to completion, scrape the leavings up and put into a bag for disposal. Be sure to thoroughly clean the candleholder as well. Either, if possible, have someone take the candle leavings to a place away from where you live and bury them, or put them into the trash for disposal by your local waste management company.
Once this whole process is done, so should the spell. If you still have problems, repeat again at the next full moon.
Notes
By informal, I'm referencing the idea of imbuing the candle with your intent: getting rid of the negative energy, or, as in the original intent for which this was written, preventing very negative unwanted former friends from bothering some friends of mine.